1. Is the relationship bygone? NO (in this case you interpret present/past verb forms used below as present) YES (in this case you interpret present/past verb forms used below as past) 2. The way you address(ed) X: familiar/intimate form, e.g. Open the door, will you?, mummy; dear; Kate; idiot middle form - quite formal and polite but intimate e.g. Could you open the door, please? Johnson, could you...? polite/formal form, e.g. Mrs Robinson, would you be so kind...; Sir/Madam; Professor, may I... neutral address/no address form, e.g. Excuse me, I won't manage my bag alone; I want this project done soon 3. The way X addresses(ed) you: familiar/intimate form middle form polite/formal form neutral address/no address form 4. How often you address(ed) X? I address(ed) X once I address(ed) X serveral times I address(ed) X regularly, but not more often than once a year I address(ed) X regularly, but not more often than once a quarter of a year I address(ed) X regularly, but not more often than once a month I address(ed) X regularly, but not more often than once a week I address(ed) X regularly, but not more often than once a day I address(ed) X regularly, several times a day 5. Do (did) you like X? I hate X I dislike X I'm indifferent to X I like X I love X 6. Do you think X likes(ed) you? X hates me X dislikes me X is indifferent to me X likes me X loves me 7. political orientation of X 7a. X's views on economy economic liberalism centrist views etatism, state intervention in economic matters No orientation, e.g. for children and people who are not interested in politics I have completely no idea 7b. X's view on values and morality in politics state should be neutral on matters of values and morality centrist views state should protect traditional values and morality No orientation, e.g. for children and people who are not interested in politics I have completely no idea 8. your political orientation? 8a. Your views on economy economic liberalism centrist views etatism, state intervention in economic matters No orientation, e.g. for children and people who are not interested in politics 8b. Your view on values and morality in politics state should be neutral on matters of values and morality centrist views state should protect traditional values and morality No orientation, e.g. for children and people who are not interested in politics 9. sex of X female male 10. your sex female male 11. marital status of X married having a boyfriend/girlfriend single 12. your marital status married having a boyfriend/girlfriend single 13. financial status of X poor, much below average modest, just below average average well off, just above average rich, much above average 14. your financial status poor, much below average modest, just below average average well off, just above average rich, much above average 15. education of X 1 primary 2 vocational 3 secondary 4 post-secondary/Bachelor's Degree 5 a student 6 higher education 7 graduate/Ph.D. student 8 Ph.D. 9 postdoctoral degree 10 professor 16. your education 1 primary 2 vocational 3 secondary 4 post-secondary/Bachelor's Degree 5 a student 6 higher education 7 graduate/Ph.D. student 8 Ph.D. 9 postdoctoral degree 10 professor 17. Which of the personality types below best describes X? introvert (= reserved, thoughtful, self-reliant) extravert (= sociable, assertive, outgoing, talkative) both or neither 18. Which of the personality types below best describes you? introvert extravert both or neither 19. Does X belong to your family? NO YES (e.g. you are a sister or spouse of X) 20. Where did you first meet X? private place, e.g. home, party, pub public place, e.g. street, shop professional place, e.g. work, school 21. Where do (did) you usually meet X? private place, e.g. home, party, pub public place, e.g. street, shop professional place, e.g. work, school 22. How is (was) the interest in maintaining the relationship distributed between you and X I am (was) more intersted in maintaining the relationship than X; it is (was) (potentially) more profitable, fulfilling etc for me we are (were) equally interested in maintaining the relationship; it is (was) (potentially) equally profitable, fulfilling etc for both of us X is (was) more intersted in maintaining the relationship than I; it is (was) (potentially) more profitable, fulfilling etc for X neither of us is (was) interested in maintaining the relationship 23. How long you an X have known each other? years, months, weeks, days 24. Has the way you address X changed since you first met? (Did the way you addressed X change over time?) NO YES If so, please, answer questions 24a - 24e 24 a. What terms of address you (had) used before when addressing X? (description of the values as in question 2 and 3 above) intimate/familiar form middle form polite/formal form neutral/no form 24 b. What terms of address X (had) used before when addressing you? (description of the values as in question 2 and 3 above) intimate/familiar form middle form polite/formal form neutral/no form 24 c. Who suggested that you should change the way of addressing (who first started using the new form of address)? I suggested the change X suggested the change 24 d. Who was more more inclined/willing to change it? I wanted the change more than X X wanted the change more than I 24 e. What was the prime reason for this change (e.g. we grew fond of each other, my graduation) 25. Does (did) the way you address(ed) X change depending on the place where you meet (met)? NO YES (e.g. you address X by Pan at school, but in private you use ty form) If so, please answer question 25a and 25b 25 a. When we meet (met) in private place public place professional place X use(d) intimate/familiar middle form polite/formal neutral form When we meet (met) in private place public place professional place X use(d) intimate/familiar middle form polite/formal neutral form When we meet (met) in private place public place professional place X use(d) intimate/familiar middle form polite/formal neutral form 25 b. When we meet (met) in private place public place professional place I use(d) intimate/familiar middle form polite/formal neutral form When we meet (met) in private place public place professional place I use(d) intimate/familiar middle form polite/formal neutral form When we meet (met) in private place public place professional place I use(d) intimate/familiar middle form polite/formal neutral form 26. How old was X when you last met him/her? 0-1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 32 33 34 35 36 37 38 39 40 41 42 43 44 45 46 47 48 49 50 51 52 53 54 55 56 57 58 59 60 61 62 63 64 65 66 67 68 69 70 71 72 73 74 75 76 77 78 79 80 81 82 83 84 85 86 87 88 89 90 91 92 93 94 95 96 97 98 99 100+ 27. How old were you when you last met X? 0-1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 32 33 34 35 36 37 38 39 40 41 42 43 44 45 46 47 48 49 50 51 52 53 54 55 56 57 58 59 60 61 62 63 64 65 66 67 68 69 70 71 72 73 74 75 76 77 78 79 80 81 82 83 84 85 86 87 88 89 90 91 92 93 94 95 96 97 98 99 100+ 28. How would you describe your relationship to X now? (e.g. X is my brother/cousin/ mother in-law; X is (was) my teacher, etc.) 29. In which country have you lived for most of your life? 30. If you feel there are any, please describe the influences from other cultures or languages that might have affected the way you address people (e.g. long stay in a foreign country, bilinguality). 31. If you are going to fill in another questionnaire (or you have filled in some already), please, enter your code you are going to use (you have already used) consistently in other questionnaire forms.